I never thought in a million years the story I never wanted to share about finding the courage to leave a toxic relationship, turning my lemons into lemonade would turn into a best selling book and a global women’s empowerment movement. As a matter of fact I didn’t want to write the book at ALL! I sat on it for 5 years until things began SO not working in my business, life kind of squeezed me like a toothpaste tube to embark on this God given purpose to grow my brand and Womens empowerment coaching company. I can tell you it wasn’t convenient in any way shape or form AND it was totally worth it!
Taking a radically honest look at my own opportunities for healing and how I had contributed to the relationship dynamics, taking radical responsibility to go inside heal or like I say “strap my tits on and do the work” and then have enough radical self love to KEEP doing the work is how all of this started. People ask me all the time how I have been able to become successful… the UGLY truth is that I FAILED A LOT and just kept going.
Healing SHAME. As women we carry SO MUCH SHAME. And it's time for all of that to be released. It's the ONLY way to be able to live fully expressed in our power. Body shame, shame about sexuality, shame about being seen and heard, visibility blocks, fear of judgement, fear of success.... ALL of it comes from shame, guilt and unworthiness.
We are all meaning making machines. If your business or relationships ( and hey all business is about relationships) is not where you want it to be, if your income level isn't where you KNOW it could be, if you're living your life on 50% instead of 100% full out FUCK YEAH... there's some hiding going on. There's some shadow parts of you that need to be brought to the light and integrated owned so you can SHINE fully.
I love doing this work with women and watching them blossom. I just love it.
I've dedicated my career to help women heal all of these facets of shame, the deep inner stuff. It's THE ONLY way for real transformation to occur.
You don't get what you want, you get what you are!
Authenticity, being seen and heard, living in the unknown where magic occurs, being fully expressed, meeting intimacy in each moment, having a BIG FUCKING JUICY LIFE, starts with the courage to look inside and become whole.
And it's so scary living your truth - what must die in order for something new to be born? What old story, old behaviors, old concepts of self, what fears, limitations need to die? What traumas need to be be loved whole?
What fantasies need to be breathed life into? What dreams are still calling knocking on your heart? What is your BODY telling you? Our bodies are always speaking to us but are we listening tuning in or numbing out?
I've been on so many magic carpet rides, loss, grief, divorce, moves, loss of identity, heartbreak... adventures, embodiment, intimacy, divine feminine rising, running a multi million dollar company with 30 team members and 3.5 million in sales in 2019. HUSTLING in my masculine energy till near burn out. Letting it ALL gooooo. Burning it down to the ground and re-building a new. So when I say trust the magic of new beginnings... Im not blowing fluff up your ass. All I have for you is my life experience in hopes that it inspires you to BET ON YOURSELF!
I believe LUCK is made by preparation meeting opportunity. I believe YOU ARE the lottery ticket so invest and bet on yourself. You can't see your own blindspots which is why coaching and mentoring is something I invest in heavily myself.
The EGO and MIND even your emotions - you are not those things. You are pure consciousness boringness, presence. You are not your protective mechanisms, you are not your trauma's however they might be driving your train and the moment.. my invitation is to dive in here into this body of work with me and Take Your Power Back Now Lover!
I’m really really passionate about learning and sharing authentically with other women what I discover on this never ending journey of personal development.
When I began this mission of teaching women’s how to take their power back now - overcome fear and thrive - it was because I wanted to make sure women all around the world were able to become conscious creators and at cause not at circumstance of their lives. To live our lives by design not by default.
I got into sales and teaching online marketing so women could earn their own money and be at choice in their relationships because that’s why women stay too long in old outdated not their purpose jobs and toxic relationships because of fear and money. I FAILED my way to 7 figures trying all kinds of funnels, paid advertising, tele summits, book launches, running mastermind programs, VIP days, retreats in Hawaii… it’s been an amazing 14 year career and it keeps getting better.
The more I worked with AMAZING courageous willing to do the work women in my programs the more it became glaringly obvious our own concepts of self, our worthiness and deservingness reflects in not just money but love as well.
The most important work you can do is on your own relationship with yourself which gets reflected in all your relationships.
I find it FASCINATING and I’ve been blessed to attract the most dedicated, rockstar team of love leaders and soul sisters experts in their own field here on this Take Your Power Back Now mission and we bring you this body of work.
So there you have it. Strap your tits on lovers, living your purpose is not convenient but SO WORTH IT! Take Your Power Back Now…. Let’s GOOOO!
Vanessa Simpkins
Founder of Take Your Power Back Now Women's Empowerment